Sexual astrology is a real thing and we're here to explore which astrological signs you're most sexually compatible with. Because aren’t you even a little bit interested. And they'll make. The Person Each Zodiac Sign Wishes They Were Compatible With (But Aren't), According To Astrology YourTango The Person Each Zodiac Sign Wishes They Were Compatible With (But Aren't) Everyone. 'Venus is what we enjoy,' Page says. Or if you have an astrology app on your phone, you can easily find your Venus in your overall birth chart. Venus in Virgo, and aren’t into people who. See, astrology tells us which personality traits are associated with each of the 12 signs. Think of them as 12 different archetypes or character types that fit you. To get the full picture, you.
Yes, because I know enough about astrology to know that “astrology says you aren’t compatible” isn’t a thing. Sure, there are plenty of commentators who will opine on whether a Leo and a Capricorn can ever really get along, or whatever.
For Sofía Vergara and Joe Manganiello, balance is key—unsurprising considering their sun signs are total opposites.
Sofía’s Cancer and Joe’s Capricorn bring out the best in each other, says Rachel Lang, intuitive astrologer.“With her Cancer Sun, Sofía can be very nurturing, and Joe, as the Capricorn, is likely to be thinking of all the ways they can work together,” she says. He probably asks her to be a part of the projects he’s working on because of how ambitious she is, while Sofía takes care to make their home a warm and cozy place for them to unwind.
Their relationship’s not short on passion either, Lang points out.“Couples born in opposite sun signs tend to have a strong attraction to one another.” And while it’s great for the romantic aspect of their relationship, it can make for a bit of competition in their relationship, too. (But more on that in a bit.) This passion, for the most part, reflects a mutual ambition. Their magnetic attraction keeps them together for the long haul, despite super-packed schedules.
“Sofía and Joe have a good mix of the astrological signatures,” says Lang, meaning they are compatible in a number of ways including friendship, communication, and passion. Ahead, she breaks down exactly how their charts interact with one another and what that means for Sofía and Joe's love life.
Jupiter and Venus are the reason Sofía and Joe are each other's biggest fans.
Joe's Jupiter, the planet of freedom and exploration, is well-positioned from Sofía's Sun and Sofía's Jupiter is very close to Joe's sun.'The influence of Jupiter is strongly featured in their charts, making them a couple that dreams together and supports one another in fulfilling their dreams,' Lang explains.'They likely talk about all they want to do together—where they’d like to travel and what they’d like to create. Even if those ideas never get off the ground, they enjoy thinking of what’s possible together.'
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Venus is helping them out in that department, too. And sure, you might think Venus, the planet that rules love, dictates all things romance in a relationship, but the planet also helps foster friendships. Venus is all about unity, whatever that might look like for two people. And in Sofía and Joe's case, Venus has made them friends as well as lovers. They can easily laugh with one another, Lang says.'And when they fight, they probably want to resolve things as soon as possible to establish a sense of harmony.'
Mercury and Saturn are responsible for their communication skills.
Mercury is the planet of communication.'Sofía's Mercury in Leo shows someone who’s expressive and very creative. Her Mercury is also right next to the asteroid Pallas, which shows she’s the type of person who feels passionate about helping others or advocating for a cause,' says Lang.
But because the placement of Joe's Saturn doesn't quite favor Sofía's Mercury, she can get frustrated with Joe when he doesn't match her intensity.'Sometimes,' Lang says,'this can be a challenging dynamic for Sofía because she might feel like he’s not on the same page.' But Lang's not worried. Saturn offers stability, she says. So, while communication isn't always smooth sailing, Joe and Sofía grow when they work to improve it.
Mars brings on the passion in Sofía and Joe's relationship.
That passion, while romantic, can also trigger Sofía and Joe's tempers, says Lang. Because of where each of their Mars' is positioned, they feel competitive with one another sometimes. But the occasional power struggle never lasts long.'They find ways to work as a team without letting their egos get in the way,' she says.
When you start dating someone new, it can be pretty tempting to assume you are long lost soulmates. You like the same music, have the same taste in movies, and really enjoy hanging out with each other. It all seems so perfect, and yet these types of shared interests aren't actually the best way to measure signs of compatibility with your partner.
While it feels great to agree on so many things, compatibility is about much more than having the same likes and dislikes. 'Compatibility, in my clinical opinion, has a lot to do with how each partner would like to be treated,' says Kim Chronister, Psy.D. in an email to Bustle. 'Many times people think that compatibility has to do with preferred activities or personalities. We often see partners with very different personalities and very different hobbies being quite compatible.'
This is evidence for the case of 'opposites attract,' and goes to show that you can find quite the perfect partner in someone who has wildly different tastes. It's a pretty eye-opening prospect — especially if you've long since thought your SO has to be your twin. With that in mind, read on for other signs that you're totally incompatible with your partner.
1. You Don't Know How To Argue With Each Other
Disagreements in a relationship are A-OK, as long as you both have a healthy fighting style. A compatible couple will hash out an argument rationally and without yelling or name-calling, Elliott D. Cohen, Ph.D. wrote on Psychology Today. An incompatible couple, on the other hand, might fight dirty or refuse to listen to each other. And that's obviously not a good mix.
2. Your SO Is Never On Your Side
Take note if your SO is quick to take everyone else's side, or seems to enjoy playing the devil's advocate. 'Your partner should be your ride-or-die bestie, your partner in crime, and your biggest cheerleader all rolled into one,' Alicia H. Clark, a Washington D.C.-based psychologist told HuffingtonPost.com. It's not a good feeling when they aren't, and it's likely not something you'll want to deal with long-term.
3. One (Or Both) Of You Is High Strung
If you're high strung, pairing up with another high strung person can lead to a very turbulent relationship, according to Cohen. Stressed out individuals need a chill person to offer some perspective. Without that level-headedness thrown in, you two will probably drive each other mad.
4. Your Messiness Levels Don't Match Up
If you prefer pristine minimalism (with no dishes in the sink, ever), it might be kind of difficult to live with someone who sees right through clutter. 'It sounds small, but over time it can build up into a huge frustration,' said Claire Wexler, vice president of the matchmaking service Selective Search, in an interview with Zahra Barnes on Women's Health. Cue the argument of a lifetime over shared chores, or whether or not to have a yard sale. Totally not worth it.
5. You Don't Share The Same Sense Of Humor
This one might seem kind of frivolous, but having the same sense of humor is actually pretty important. 'Life is hard; you’ll need someone in your corner who’ll roll with the punches and try to keep the mood light when the unexpected happens,' marriage and family therapist Virginia Gilbert told HuffingtonPost.com. Not to mention, it makes moody sarcasm (or a lack of it) an OK thing.
6. You Have Different Ideas About Money
Again, it may not seem like a big deal early on, but ya'll want to agree when it comes to spending (or not spending) money. 'Couples who are on the same page with their money and finances will usually find it easier going than those with wildly divergent spending behaviors,' said John M. Grohol, Psy.D., on PsychCentral.com. Keep an eye out for signs that you and your partner just don't agree.
7. One Of You Is Always Running Late
This type of personality flaw can be cute early on, but punctuality problems can become a major point of contention for the wrong couple. 'Whether you’re both always on time or running 15 minutes behind, having a synced-up sense of punctuality is a hint that you could work together,' said Barnes. If not, one of you should get ready for a life of frustration.
8. You Feel More Insecure Than Not
A healthy relationship will leave you feeling secure and content, not worried or suspicious. If the latter is the case, it could be a sign of a lack of compatibility, Clark explains in the same Huffington Post article. The right person will give you the exact level of attention you need — and vice versa — so neither of you ever feel troubled.
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9. Your Diets Are Vastly Different
As a vegetarian, I've dated meat-eaters and never had a problem with it. But diet differences can be a problem for some. “Things like one person being an adventurous eater while the other is very picky can become a bigger issue than you’d think,' Wexler said. 'And if one person has dietary restrictions while the other doesn’t, that can also cause problems down the road.' It's up to you whether or not it's a deal breaker.
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10. You Kind Of Hold Back When Talking
When you've found yourself a good match, you'll be able to say whatever the heck you want, and it'll be OK. But this simply can't be the case if you're with someone who is judgmental, or wishes you'd change, according to Clark. If that's true, it may be time to find someone more worthy of your attention.
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11. You Move At Different Tempos
If you're the super chill type, it can be fun (and even a bit helpful) to date someone who's on the peppier side. And of course, vice versa. But sometimes mismatched life tempos can become a problem. 'Some people are laid-back and let little get to them, while others take every one of life’s challenges to heart,' Grohol said. If you two are constantly at odds in this area, it might be best to hit the ol' dusty trail.
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After all, your SO doesn't have to be your twin, but they do have to be on your side. When you find someone who is most of the time, then you'll know you've truly found a compatible partner.
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